Second Thoughts – First
German title: Mein Wenn und Aber
2021, 93 minutes – part III
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To realise your dream, you need to know what you want.
Work and Love – how do they go together? And on top of that, having a child? In SECOND THOUGHTS –FIRST, Marko Doringer uses humour and curiosity to explore the daily struggle for success, love and happiness.
Following HALF THE TIME OF MY LIFE and GLOBALLY YOURS, SECOND THOUGHTS – FIRST is the third part of a tetralogy in which Marko Doringer examines the realities of a generation in times of uncertainty. Ironic and analytical at the same time, this film is a feature documentary, a long-term research project turning at times into couples’ therapy – with wit and courage leading to astonishing self-realization.
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It’s now or never for a child, says Marlene, the partner of filmmaker Marko Doringer. This remark triggers many emotions in Marko, none of them positive. His job is anything but secure. He can’t even think about decent retirement. And on top of that, having a child? When, out of the blue, a protagonist calls to tell him she will drop out of his current project, Marko is on the verge of giving it all up. But who would he be without his profession? For despite his love-hate relationship with his work, it is and remains his identity. Is it even possible to have both – fulfilling work and a happy relationship?
Marko visits friends, colleagues and his parents to find out how they deal with the fragile fabric of partnership, family and work. His generation is torn apart: On the one hand, they love their work. On the other hand, they fear not being able to do justice to their partners or children. Above all, they desperately want to avoid repeating the failings of their parents. Is there a magic formula for having a successful and happy life?
Wolfram wants to build a career and at the same time starts a long-distance relationship with Eva. Does he have to choose between work and love? Shaheen works on projects all over the world, while Rukhsana stays in Germany, sorely missing him. Can things work out between them when their relationship always comes second? Catalina and Paul have a daughter, with a second child on the way. Will they be able to balance work and family? Meanwhile, Marko’s parents are enjoying their comfortable pension. Apparently they have done everything right in their lives.
With empathy, persistence and humour, filmmaker Marko Doringer takes a close look at the emotional life of a generation struggling to find its way. Following (HALF) THE TIME OF MY LIFE and GLOBALLY YOURS, this is the third instalment of Doringer’s Austrian cult series: SECOND THOUGHTS –FIRST is a bitter-sweet film about the challenges of balancing work and love.
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FACTS
GERMAN TITLE:
Mein Wenn und AberCOMPLETION:
January 2021WORD PREMIERE:
May 07, 2022 | DOK.fest | Music (Germany)LENGTH:
93 minutesORIGINAL LANGUAGE:
German, English, BengaliVERSIONS:
OmU Deutsch, OwS EnglishDISTRIBUTOR:
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CREDITS
with
Catalina M. & Paul-Julien R.
Rukhsana & Shaheen D.-R.
Wolfram H. & Eva L.
Etty & Heinz D.
Marlene N., Marko D. & Elsawriter, director & camera: Marko Doringer
assistant director: Stefan Pircher Verdorfer
script consultant: Andres Veiel
second camera: Joerg Burger
sound: Tong Zhang a.o.
editing: Daniel Flax, Marko Doringermusic: Elsa Tootsie & the Mini Band,
. Les Hommes Sauvages
sound design: Veronika Hlawatsch
score mix: Nico Berthold
studio for score mix: Victoria Studios
re-recording mix: Bernhard Maisch
studio re-recording mix: Tremenscolor grading: Klaus Pamminger
title design: Mieke Ulfig
social media: Mirela Jasic
website: Gerhard Roider | roider.atcommissioning editor: Susanne Spellitz | ORF
producer: Marko Doringer | Filmfabrik -
REVIEWS
“Strikes the chord of a generation.”
CHRISTIAN SCHACHINGER/ DER STANDARD“Deals with the big and little questions of life that could not be more universal!”
ALINA SCHALLER/ FM4 MORNING SHOW“An unsparing look at the reality between self-realization and obligations.”
MADELEINE GEOSITS/ ZIB/ ORF“Surprisingly intimate and refreshingly entertaining.”
ALEXANDRA SEIBEL/ KURIER“Simply riveting!”
MARGRET KÖHLER/ AZ MÜNCHEN“With wit, wistfulness and touching openness.”
JULIA BASCHIERA/ Ö1 MORGENJOURNAL“Unaffected, pure, spontaneous and so close.”
CHRISTINA SONNTAG/ SALZBURG HEUTE/ ORF“Highly recommended!”
SABINA ZEITHAMMER/ FALTER-
OTHER REVIEWS
“Questions posed by life.”
TIROLER TAGESZEITUNG“A film about the big questions: parenthood, work and happiness.”
HERBERT SCHORN/ OÖN“A declaration of love!”
VIENNA.AT“With typical Austrian wit.”
KATJA KRAFT/ MÜNCHNER MERKUR“A generation of men on the therapeutic couch.”
JULIA SCHAFFERHOFER/ KLEINE ZEITUNG“Do it better – the disarming moral of this film.”
MAGDALENA MIEDL/ SALZBURGER NACHRICHTEN“A film from a man’s point of view that attempts to understand women, listen to them and empathize with them.”
MATTHIAS GREULING/ WIENER ZEITUNG“A struggle for a new masculinity involving turning away from fathers, a masculinity that comes across as more humane and gentler (…).”
SUSANNE JÄGER/ RAY Filmmagazin“A film making us participate in life’s changes and challenges.”
MARLENE NOWOTNY/ PUNKT EINS/ Ö1“Work, love and other minor things: (a film) about growing old and the meaning of life.”
GERHARD SUMMER/ SÜDDEUTSCHE ZEITUNG“Recommended! Radically subjective, tragicomical and occasionally with painful openness.”
SABINA ZEITHAMMER/ FALTER“A film between uninhibited self-doubt and a brilliantly focussed look at his generation.”
REINHARD KRIECHBAUM/ DREHPUNKT KULTUR“The eagerly awaited third part of Marko Doringer’s film diary, which also takes a closer look at the big questions and the emotional make-up of an entire generation.”
FLORIAN WIDEGGER/ FILMARCHIV
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FEEDBACK
“A highly entertaining film!!”
THOMAS“Outstanding! A stroke of genius.”
CINEMA HALL REACTIONS“Better than Woody Allen!”
ANJA“Thanks so much for this moving and great film that at many points stirred me to reflect – while always remaining entertaining.”
KAY“I enjoyed myself from the first to last minute. I think you have a remarkable way of arriving at a deep level of dialogue with your protagonists (…), and in a humorous way.”
DANIEL“SECOND THOUGHTS – FIRST is tops!”
ANNA“Authentic, relatable – and despite partly difficult situations always with a positive vibe.”
ANGELIKA -
FESTIVALS
DOK.fest´22
GermanyKino wie noch nie ´22
AustriaFuenf Seen Film Festival ´22
GermanyStranger Than Fiction ´23
GermanyNonfiktionale ´23
Germany
FEATURED MUSIC
→ Elsa Tootsie and The Mini Band
. by Daniel Schatz, Artur Nutz
. & Michael Prehofer
→ Les Hommes Sauvages
. by Kristof Hahn (Swans)
→ Sultans of Gedankenbrain
. by Kristof Hahn (Swans)
YOUR FEEDBACK
Tell me your thoughts about my work.
Marko Doringer
AUDIENCE TESTIMONIALS
“Thank you for this moving, outstanding film!”
KAY
“A really beautiful and enjoyable film!”
LUCIA
“We liked it a lot, what a terrific film!”
DIANA
“Outstanding! A stroke of genius.”
COMMENT / IN THEATRE
PRESS & REVIEWS
“Simply riveting!”
AZ MÜNCHEN
“Highly recommended! This film is radically subjective, tragicomic, and sometimes almost painfully honest.”
FALTER
“The eagerly awaited third part of Marko Doringer’s film diary, which also takes a closer look at the big questions and the emotional make-up of an entire generation.”
FILMARCHIV AUSTRIA
“With typical Austrian humour.”
MÜNCHNER MERKUR
PROJECT PARTNERS
funded by
Austrian Film Institute
FISA – Film Industry Support Austria
Government of Lower Austria
Government of Salzburg
in cooperation with
ORF Film/Fernseh-Abkommen
project development also supported by
Filmfonds Vienna
THEATRICAL RELEASE SUPPORTED BY
Austrian Film Institute
PRODUCED BY
Filmfabrik Marko Doringer film production
© Austria 2021
PAST DATES
COMPLETION
January 2021
WORLD PREMIERE
May 07, 2022 | DOK.fest | Munich (Germany)
DOK.FEST
May 07 & 13, 2022 | Munic (Germany)
KINO WIE NOCH NIE
July 15 & 16, 2022 | Augarten Open Air | Vienna (Austria)
FUENF SEEN FILMFESTIVAL
September 03 & 04, 2022 | Starnberg (Germany)
IDFA docs for sale
November 11 to 16, 2022 | Amsterdam (The Netherlands)
Theatrical Release
December 30, 2022 | polyfilm | Austria
STRANGER THAN FICTION
February 02, 2023 | Cologne (Germany)
NONFIKTIONALE
March17, 2023 | Bad Aibling (Germany)
SOCIAL MEDIA